As a mum of three and a full-time blogger working from home, I’ve learned that self-care doesn’t always look like spa days or silence—it looks like tiny rituals that honour your energy in the middle of the chaos. After my third baby, I started a simple morning routine: coffee in my favourite cup, a five-minute gratitude journal, and tidying my space before the day began. It wasn’t perfect (my toddler usually joined in with crumbs and cuddles), but it anchored me in a season that often felt overwhelming. My best tip? Romanticise the little things. Light a candle during nap time. Play your favourite playlist or podcast while folding laundry. You don’t need hours—you need intention. Self-care as a new parent isn’t about escaping your life but finding softness within it.

Plus Size Clothing That Is Both High Quality And Comfortable 

Gone are the days when plus-size options meant shapeless sacks and bland colours. But let’s be honest: we still have a long way to go. Shopping should be fun, not frustrating. And the size on your label? That shouldn’t be the thing that limits your style.

As a full-time blogger, mum of three, and someone who’s danced with fluctuating weight over the years, I know just how frustrating it can be to find high quality plus size clothing that actually fits—and looks good doing it.

There’s nothing worse than stepping into a changing room, only to be met with unflattering cuts, stiff fabrics, or styles that seem like they were designed to hide you, not highlight you. And for those of us who love fashion, it can feel like an uphill battle to find pieces that offer comfort and confidence. But here’s the good news: plus-size fashion is evolving, and it is possible to build a wardrobe that feels as good as it looks—without compromising on quality, fit, or flair.

In this post, I’m sharing practical tips to help you shop smarter, feel empowered, and find pieces that work for you. Because when your clothes fit well, everything else just falls into place.

Finding Plus Size Clothing, a woman wearing a floral top and curly hair.

Why Plus Size Fashion Still Feels Limiting

There are countless reasons why someone may be plus-size—genetics, medical conditions, lifestyle, or simply natural body changes. But whatever the reason, the struggles are real:

  • Limited styles in-store and online
  • Unflattering cuts that drape instead of define
  • Lack of variety in colours, patterns, and shapes
  • Low-quality fabrics that don’t last—or breathe

And let’s not even start on the emotional toll of trying to shop in a world that makes you feel like you don’t belong in a changing room.

What Plus Size Women Really Want From Fashion

It’s not about hiding curves or shrinking yourself—it’s about comfort, quality, and confidence. Most plus-size women simply want:

  • Clothes that fit well
  • Styles that feel modern and flattering
  • Breathable, stretchy fabrics
  • A variety of colours and cuts
  • To shop alongside everyone else—not in a tiny corner section

When selecting wholesalers for your plus size clothing stock, opt for ones that supply many different sizes. Not just XL, XXL, XXXL. Choose ones that provide a more detailed sizing chart. 

Plus size model in Bali wearing a floral top and boyfriend jeans

The Dream? No More “Plus Size” Section at All

In an ideal world, we’d all shop from the same racks, with every size represented equally. Luckily, fashion is slowly moving in that direction, with more inclusive sizing ranges and better representation in campaigns. But until we’re truly there, here are some tips to help you shop smarter.

How to Shop for High Quality Plus Size Clothing

Let’s get practical. Whether you’re shopping for yourself or sourcing stock for your boutique, here’s how to make sure your wardrobe (or shop) reflects the style and standards you deserve.

Plus size model in Bali wearing a cute pastel summer dress.

1. Choose Brands That Prioritise Extended Sizing

Look for retailers or wholesalers who don’t stop at XXL. Some brands now go up to 5XL or offer sizes in increments (like 1X, 2X, 3X) that offer a more accurate fit.

Bonus tip:

Check their sizing chart—brands that provide detailed measurements (like bust, waist, and hip in inches or cm) are often better at delivering consistent, flattering fits.

2. Prioritise Stretchy, Comfortable Fabrics

The right fabric makes all the difference. You want material that moves with you—not against you.

Best fabric blends for comfort and stretch:

  • Spandex / Elastane – Offers up to 400% stretch!
  • Cotton blends – Soft, breathable, and flattering
  • Nylon-spandex mix – Ideal for shaping pieces that still feel light
  • Modal or Bamboo – Luxe, breathable and perfect for daily wear

3. Think Fit and Flatter—Not Hide and Drape

Choose clothing that highlights your shape instead of hiding it. That doesn’t mean everything has to be bodycon, but opt for pieces that:

  • Have defined waistlines
  • Offer adjustable elements (wrap ties, ruched sleeves, belts)
  • Include strategic seams to shape without clinging

4. Go Beyond Market Research: Ask Real Women

If you’re a boutique owner or content creator, don’t just guess what your plus-size audience wants—ask them.

Try these quick ideas:

  • Run a poll on your blog or social media
  • Create a feedback form for past customers
  • Ask what styles, colours, and cuts they struggle to find

Building a community that feels heard is a game-changer for brand loyalty—and it means you’re sourcing pieces people will actually love.

Plus size model in Bali wearing a black tshirt and jeans

Before You Go – Confidence Starts With a Good Fit

Finding high quality plus size clothing shouldn’t feel like a battle. Whether you’re dressing for comfort, style, or something in between, you deserve pieces that make you feel amazing—not like you’re settling. And don’t forget to accessorise with a cute handbag or jewellery.

Your size is not a limitation—it’s just a number. What truly matters is how you feel in your clothes.

So here’s to a future where every rack is size-inclusive, every fabric feels luxurious, and fashion becomes a celebration of every body.

With love, gratitude & soft girl CEO vibes.

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